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July 1, 2025July 1, 2025Uncategorized

How to Get Your First Submissive

Can’t get a job without experience; can’t get experience without a job. Many of us who set out to practice dominance run […]

August 23, 2024Uncategorized

Power/Authority/Management

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Want to know something cool about power exchange? Something that most people don’t realize? It isn’t all about power. It isn’t all […]

February 22, 2023February 22, 2023Community, Consent, Essay

There Is No Indispensable Dom

I read a heartbreaking story of abuse in power exchange recently, and one particular bit that stood out to me was this: […]

March 7, 2022March 8, 2022Essay

Some Guidelines for Playing With Fucked up Shit

A lot of the shit we feel called to play with in the realm of kink is pretty fucked up. I’m not […]

September 18, 2021September 18, 2021Community, Essay

What the Mountains Taught Me Part 1: Smoke

Picture of Yosemite Valley, full of wildfire smoke

In under a week I’ll come to the end of what I expect to be my last summer of working as a […]

August 14, 2021March 8, 2022Announcement, Community, Essay

Find Your Home in Kink

Hands fasten a locking chain around a stocking-clad ankle.

Perhaps the least-expected benefit I’ve gotten out of being a lifelong pervert with twisted and taboo desires is that I have never lacked for friends.

February 11, 2021Announcement, Erotica

Owning a Cuckquean in a Pandemic

(a fantasy) “I am so tired of this pandemic,” I tell her. “It feels like forever since I’ve made love to a […]

January 30, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Four Ways to Punish Your Submissive

A leashed person kneels against a wall.

“What are some ways I can punish my submissive?” is a super common question in kinky circles. And usually the answer it […]

January 23, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Whatever I Want, Whenever I Want It

A person wearing a collar. A hand coming from outside the frame cups their chin possessively.

“I will do whatever I want to you, whenever I want to do it.” For a lot of folks that is an […]

January 18, 2021Dominant Technique, Essay, Submissive Skills

Happy MLK Day! Here are Eight Black Kink Educators You Ought to Know About

1. Mollena Williams-Haas is one of the wisest, realest voices on M/s dynamics I’ve ever found. Go watch The Artist and the […]

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Consensualdominance.com is Anton Fulmen, a kink and sexuality author and educator specializing in consensual power exchange.

Anton has had a lifelong fascination with intimate power, exploring it in a wide range of flavors and contexts from relationships ranging from one night to ten years, from casual to full-time, from silly to serious; and in styles from Daddy to Master to Owner to I-don’t-know-what-this-is-but-it-sure-is-fun. He usually dominates, sometimes submits, and always learns; building a deep understanding of many forms of intimate leading and following.

Anton lives with his girl, Ann, outside Sacramento, California.

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