Books
For many people, FetLife is their primary access point to the world of kink, but though Fet is a fire hose of sexy images, dirty fantasies and fetish-filled user profiles, it can be exceedingly difficult to reach through the screen and make a human connection. This pay-what-you-choose ebook is your guide to leveraging FetLife in your search for love, play, community and kinky fulfillment.
Online Education
Ready to take your power relationship to a deeper, stronger, more intimate level? Power&Intimacy Online is a relationship-building workshop for power exchange couples and tuples.
These courses, offered through the Thinkific platform, can be taken on your own schedule, from the privacy of your home.
In-Person Retreat
The Power & Intimacy retreat is a place to enhance your power exchange relationship, whether you’re just beginning to explore the romance of dominance and submission with your partner(s), or looking to take an existing power dynamic to the next level.
Workshops
Classroom learning can be a fantastic opportunity to benefit from the wisdom, perspectives and support of a whole room full of people who are as passionate about the subject as you are. It’s especially valuable on taboo topics like kink, where opportunities for frank conversations with others are relatively uncommmon.
I love facilitating workshops on power exchange related topics. Click through to see descriptions of some of my favorite programs, and please reach out if you’re interested in having me come teach in your community.
Essays
Some Guidelines for Playing With Fucked up Shit
A lot of the shit we feel called to play with in the realm of kink is pretty fucked up. I’m not […]
What the Mountains Taught Me Part 1: Smoke
In under a week I’ll come to the end of what I expect to be my last summer of working as a […]
Find Your Home in Kink
Perhaps the least-expected benefit I’ve gotten out of being a lifelong pervert with twisted and taboo desires is that I have never lacked for friends.