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Inspiring Submission

A little excerpt from my shiny new book, The Heart of Dominance. The first lesson to learn on the path to competent […]

A little excerpt from my shiny new book, The Heart of Dominance. Many of us love to play with surprise, and for […]

Stop me if you’ve heard this one: “The one with the real power in a D/s relationship is the submissive, because they […]

Last week I wrote about assumptions and manners for behaving well around collars in kinky community. This week I add some ideas […]

There is no more powerful and widely recognized symbol of submission than the collar. Collars are used in all kinds of different […]

We’re having dinner with friends. She says to me, “Those potatoes look delicious. Would you like to pass them to me?” and […]

Really powerful dominance is founded on really deep knowledge of our partners. We can rule them and guide them and play them […]

I have a bone to pick with negotiation checklists. Anyone who’s looked for education or advice on how to negotiate for the […]

Whenever she sat down in a staff meeting, the slave liked to imagine that everyone in the room could hear her rings […]