Dominant Technique – Consensual Dominance

Four Ways to Punish Your Submissive

“What are some ways I can punish my submissive?” is a super common question in kinky circles. And usually the answer it […]

“I will do whatever I want to you, whenever I want to do it.” For a lot of folks that is an […]

1. Mollena Williams-Haas is one of the wisest, realest voices on M/s dynamics I’ve ever found. Go watch The Artist and the […]

Do you crave being made to suffer in ways you hate? Do you simultaneously care deeply about your partner’s happiness and want […]

Do you live in the Bay Area? On November 5 I’ll be teaching Orgasm Denial for Society of Janus. Come join me! […]

Resistance, as I’m using the word here, is the frustrating experience of wanting to submit but having a hard time actually letting […]

“The only discipline that lasts is self-discipline.” —Bum Phillips “Discipline” is a very popular, very sexy concept for those of us who […]

Pretty often I see people ask for ideas of things they could do with their submissive, and usually most of the responses […]

There’s this seeming paradox in what’s expected of those of us who aspire to dominate. On the one hand, we’re supposed to […]

“I’m 100% dominant.” “I don’t have a submissive bone in my body.” “I couldn’t be submissive if I tried.” It’s the favorite […]