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Category: Dominant Technique

January 30, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Four Ways to Punish Your Submissive

A leashed person kneels against a wall.

“What are some ways I can punish my submissive?” is a super common question in kinky circles. And usually the answer it […]

January 23, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Whatever I Want, Whenever I Want It

A person wearing a collar. A hand coming from outside the frame cups their chin possessively.

“I will do whatever I want to you, whenever I want to do it.” For a lot of folks that is an […]

January 18, 2021Dominant Technique, Essay, Submissive Skills

Happy MLK Day! Here are Eight Black Kink Educators You Ought to Know About

1. Mollena Williams-Haas is one of the wisest, realest voices on M/s dynamics I’ve ever found. Go watch The Artist and the […]

October 8, 2020October 9, 2020Dominant Technique, Essay, Submissive Skills

The Onion of Desire

Do you crave being made to suffer in ways you hate? Do you simultaneously care deeply about your partner’s happiness and want […]

October 29, 2019Announcement, Dominant Technique, Essay

The Pleasure of Wanting

Do you live in the Bay Area? On November 5 I’ll be teaching Orgasm Denial for Society of Janus. Come join me! […]

September 1, 2017May 29, 2019Dominant Technique

Clarify, Chastise, Ask: How to Deal with Submissive Resistance

Resistance, as I’m using the word here, is the frustrating experience of wanting to submit but having a hard time actually letting […]

May 9, 2017May 29, 2019Dominant Technique

How to Discipline

“The only discipline that lasts is self-discipline.” —Bum Phillips “Discipline” is a very popular, very sexy concept for those of us who […]

April 6, 2017March 8, 2022Dominant Technique

12 Things to Do With Your Submissive – Even if They’re Far Away

The shadow of a person wearing a leash.

Pretty often I see people ask for ideas of things they could do with their submissive, and usually most of the responses […]

September 27, 2016October 23, 2020Dominant Technique

Consensualy Masterful

There’s this seeming paradox in what’s expected of those of us who aspire to dominate. On the one hand, we’re supposed to […]

September 12, 2016May 29, 2019Dominant Technique

Your Inability to Submit is Nothing to Brag About

“I’m 100% dominant.” “I don’t have a submissive bone in my body.” “I couldn’t be submissive if I tried.” It’s the favorite […]

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Consensualdominance.com is Anton Fulmen, a kink and sexuality author and educator specializing in consensual power exchange.

Anton has had a lifelong fascination with intimate power, exploring it in a wide range of flavors and contexts from relationships ranging from one night to ten years, from casual to full-time, from silly to serious; and in styles from Daddy to Master to Owner to I-don’t-know-what-this-is-but-it-sure-is-fun. He usually dominates, sometimes submits, and always learns; building a deep understanding of many forms of intimate leading and following.

Anton lives with his girl, Ann, outside Sacramento, California.

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