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Tools for Power Exchange

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Consensual Dominance

Tools for Power Exchange

  • Books
  • Retreat
  • Workshops
  • Essays
  • Other Resources

Consensual Dominance

Tools for Power Exchange

Category: Essay

March 7, 2022March 8, 2022Essay

Some Guidelines for Playing With Fucked up Shit

A lot of the shit we feel called to play with in […]

September 18, 2021September 18, 2021Community, Essay

What the Mountains Taught Me Part 1: Smoke

Picture of Yosemite Valley, full of wildfire smoke

In under a week I’ll come to the end of what I […]

August 14, 2021March 8, 2022Announcement, Community, Essay

Find Your Home in Kink

Hands fasten a locking chain around a stocking-clad ankle.

Perhaps the least-expected benefit I’ve gotten out of being a lifelong pervert with twisted and taboo desires is that I have never lacked for friends.

January 30, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Four Ways to Punish Your Submissive

A leashed person kneels against a wall.

“What are some ways I can punish my submissive?” is a super […]

January 23, 2021March 8, 2022Dominant Technique, Essay

Whatever I Want, Whenever I Want It

A person wearing a collar. A hand coming from outside the frame cups their chin possessively.

“I will do whatever I want to you, whenever I want to […]

January 18, 2021Dominant Technique, Essay, Submissive Skills

Happy MLK Day! Here are Eight Black Kink Educators You Ought to Know About

1. Mollena Williams-Haas is one of the wisest, realest voices on M/s […]

November 9, 2020Essay

Unfair

Once upon a time, a long while ago, I had this lovely […]

October 8, 2020October 9, 2020Dominant Technique, Essay, Submissive Skills

The Onion of Desire

Do you crave being made to suffer in ways you hate? Do […]

October 2, 2020October 2, 2020Essay

Keeping it Kinky Through a Parade of Catastrophes

The pandemic is dragging on with a million dead, and it’s starting […]

July 23, 2020August 6, 2020Essay

Dominant is Not a Species

“Mallard” is a species. A mallard is born a mallard and will […]

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Consensualdominance.com is Anton Fulmen, a kink and sexuality author and educator specializing in consensual power exchange.

Anton has had a lifelong fascination with intimate power, exploring it in a wide range of flavors and contexts from relationships ranging from one night to ten years, from casual to full-time, from silly to serious; and in styles from Daddy to Master to Owner to I-don’t-know-what-this-is-but-it-sure-is-fun. He usually dominates, sometimes submits, and always learns; building a deep understanding of many forms of intimate leading and following.

Anton lives with his girl, Ann, outside Sacramento, California.

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