June 2, 2020October 3, 2020Essay Kink Has Always Been Political You’ve heard of the Marquis de Sade, right? The guy whose name […]
March 19, 2020Essay The Romance of Restraint In between all the screaming and begging and cumming, there are deeper […]
October 29, 2019Announcement, Dominant Technique, Essay The Pleasure of Wanting Do you live in the Bay Area? On November 5 I’ll be […]
August 28, 2019Essay If You’re Accused by Someone You’ve Played With, You’re Guilty If anyone you’ve played with accuses you of mistreating them, you are […]
July 26, 2019Essay I ♥ Consensual Objectification One of my all time favorite sex toys is the Fleshlight that […]
July 24, 2019July 24, 2019Erotica, Essay Surrender I bring my hand down hard on the tender upper part of […]
June 20, 2019July 24, 2019Essay “Nice Guy” and “Bad Boy” Aren’t Your Only Options “Women say they want nice guys, but really they go for the […]
December 24, 2018April 5, 2020Essay Kink Shaming, and What It Isn’t The idea of kink shaming as a thing to avoid is a […]
October 16, 2018May 29, 2019Announcement, Essay How to Find Partners on FetLife Y’all know what FetLife is, right? Big social media site for kinksters? […]
January 20, 2018May 29, 2019Essay Starting Your Power Exchange Over An excerpt from my upcoming book “Ways to Play With Power,” posted […]