Happy MLK Day! Here are Eight Black Kink Educators You Ought to Know About
1. Mollena Williams-Haas is one of the wisest, realest voices on M/s dynamics I’ve ever found. Go watch The Artist and the […]
Category: Submissive Skills
The Onion of Desire
Do you crave being made to suffer in ways you hate? Do you simultaneously care deeply about your partner’s happiness and want […]
How to Find a Real Dominant
“How can I find a real dominant?” is one of the most common and most urgent questions asked in kink communities all […]
How to Disagree With Your Dominant
So you have a dominant who you feel lucky to get to submit to. You trust them. You respect their judgment. You’re […]
Real Submissive Training
There are a lot of folks around our communities who are eager to be trained as s-types. They want to be appealing […]
Submissive Skills: The Ceiling and The Floor
We domly types often like to think the way D/s works is that we tell you exactly what to do and you […]